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« on: June 01, 2016, 11:39:53 pm »
This convo reminds me of the time my college dorm mates decided to make an intramural bball team. They asked the one black kid on the floor to play. He happened to be to be super jacked and athletic looking as well. Then one kid (white) but sort of unfit looking turns to me and says it's funny how they don't ask me if I play because I'm fat but I played for my HS team, etc. I went to the one game and the black kid had not the slightest idea how to play lol, he was horrible.
Anyway, point being you don't want to stereotype and place expectations on people because it hurts individuals plus society as a whole. I imagine plenty of black kids who aren't super athletic drop sports they would otherwise enjoy because of that expectation that they have to be great and super athletic. Also, think of how many black kids might question themselves going into a field like science, engineering, etc, bc that's not who they're "supposed to be." It sucks to put those expectations and insecurities on young kids. Plus society misses out on talent across many disciplines. This goes for all races, ethnicities etc.
Anyway on an even broader scale, this issue leads me to political correctness and how it's a very big positive for society in my opinion. If you've noticed on this board, LBSS especially, will quickly correct anyone who makes racist, sexist, or other hateful remarks. I think that's such a great thing, to make people question their thoughts and beliefs. I think it's so easy to be hateful and judgmental especially with topics that we are unfamiliar with. Even a year ago, I remember being so spiteful toward the Jenner transgender case and toward the issue of transgender people in general thinking things like this a stunt, total publicity and questioning transgender being a real thing. Man after reading about the reality of it and seeing crazy statistics like attempted suicide rates among the transgender community and the extent of their suffering I felt so crappy and ignorant.
But the reality is that we all have hateful thoughts and moments and we direct it toward specific traits like race. But as long we make the effort to question those feelings and even go the extra and teach others to do the same, I think we're improving ourselves and society for future generations. That's why I'm really against Trump and his blatant egoism and spilling out hatred unapologetically. I feel like he's giving people the worst possible route. It's just so much easier to say yes I hate so and so and I don't care anymore, it's their fault such and such is happening. It kind of gives a sense of relief that someone has these same feelings as us and they're expressing them loudly and with pride. Ughhh decades of progress down the drain potentially.