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Progress Journals & Experimental Routines / Re: chasing athleticism
« on: June 23, 2016, 09:35:27 am »BW:80.1kg / 176.59lb (LPR)
Ok so this is the lowest ive weighed since coming home. But ive been eating like shit lately. hotdogs, meatballs, loads of chips/fries and last night m&ms. I think ive been grieving the end of a promising relationship even before it blossomed. She went MIA since the weekend and she hasnt been returning my messages. I take the writing on the wall for what it is, occam's razor doesn't permit any other interpretation at this juncture. I knida know that im not going to find someone else like her unless i leave this city for greener pastures. So it's loss in the sense of what it means in the long term. I am going to end it with the younger girl too, i dont want to lead her on, theres no future there, 9 years is a huge gap. So yeah single again. Time to turn to training to fill the void. I'm back on the chicken breast and oatmeal wagon as of today!
Occam's razor is proof of nothing and even still it is useful only for matters regarding models of the physical world.
Occam's razor should never be applied for matters of the heart. She hasn't returned a few texts. Don't harass her or send her any fatalistic or final text about how she hasn't returned them and thus you assume the worst. But do assume something. Assume something that puts you both in an extremely positive light and leave it alone without finality in your head...
Assume that you are awesome and she saw that and she is awesome as well... But she is going through something or perhaps is a little apprehensive about meeting a man so amazing... Believe this. She might not text you ever again... But then again maybe she will... And when she does you need to be the positive and optimistic guy she met - this can't be faked. Don't burn bridges. Don't put this on your shortcomings or her failings as far as not being respectful and getting back to you... If she 100% didn't like you she probably would have told you rather than disappeared in fear... Be you and post great IG stuff of dunks and believe something positive and you will be surprised how it pays off...
This advice was given when I was young and was life changing for me... Had to share it with you. Do with it what u want...
This was exactly what I needed to hear. I don't even have to assume too much, it's pretty much true as is. Pretty amazing how a perspective can change a situation radically. Wow.