The substituting of humble for obedient is pure gold. This is exactly what i've witnessed in person (at work) or in other settings. In my personal experience, these things are mostly said by whites, but also by "non-blacks" (latino, asian etc). There are people who know exactly what they are doing when they say these things. I think these are usually the ones who put these narratives out in the media/sports world to begin with. Then there's most everyone else who hear these narratives, slurp them up, and perpetuate them.
To be totally fair I don't think it's only non-blacks who perpetuate these narratives. Sure, people are self-interested so it's pretty rare to find a black person who is overtly racist toward black people - but this kind of subtle pervasive racism is a stain on society, it affects us all regardless of skin color. I think the people who you refer to as "knowing exactly what they are doing" are rarely black people - but the narratives are repeated most commonly by white people, less commonly by non-black minorities and even less commonly but still substantially by black people. I think that in the black community a lot of this comes from jealousy from the older generation - the reaction is sort of "
Hey I was obedient and didn't think about what was best for me, what the hell do you think you are doing doing things differently than the way they have always been done!"
Additionally, to be fair some of these people perpetuating the narratives are people who have just taken their fandom for another player to far too extreme of a level. I have met Kobe fans who parrot any negative thing about LBJ just to keep him from challenging Kobe on the historical charts. I even have a black friend from Chicago who used to repeat all kinds of ridiculous reasons for why LBJ is no good and not loyal like MJ - although now he is cheering in vain for Lebron and against Curry and the Warriors because he doesn't want to see the 73 win season end in a championship so it won't count. LOL.
Speaking of the way things have always been done, it's important to reflect on just how far we have come in America as far as sports. One of the many reasons to love sports is it's ability to tell us so much socioculturally. It really wasn't that long ago ( ~ 1950 ) that the color-line was just being broken in major american sports. At that time there were many fans who believed in an actual white physical superiority and some cultural minds thought that blacks challenging this racism would result in sports becoming less popular... What's fascinating is now the three most popular sports in America have far more black athletes than white and sports are far more popular than ever... Unfortunately the simple solution (America is no longer racist!) is not really how we arrived here and you need to look no farther than the popularity of Trump and disrespect of Obama to see how clear that is... Sport has remained popular in a racist country despite the majority of athletes being black because what sport is has changed - sport is no longer about the athlete but about the management, the strategy, the salary cap deals, the trades, etc - all things orchestrated by the white participants in the sport. This is why fantasy sports are so popular.
White people are ok with being fans of sports where the majority of athletes are blacks as long as they are the loyal foot soldiers in the operation - they grumble about them being overpaid (which is RIDICULOUS because some of these same people who say LBJ is overpaid are free-market republicans who should be in full opposition to an artificial max-salary that forces LBJ to be massively underpaid relative to what he is worth in a fair market) but accept them as part of the game. This is IMO why football is the most popular sport in America - it's black athletes are truly faceless soldiers hidden behind a helmet, with unguaranteed contracts, short careers and a lifetime of brain damage to look forward to, while the decision makers are wealthy whites making strategic deals... I mean how many football fans have you met who are fans of Bill Belichick? He doesn't even play football - yet the game is made about how he is a genius rather than the skill of the players.
This is why football players can have straight up criminal records and basically kill people but Cam Newton get's heat for celebrating when he scores rather than running back to the sideline obediently and Richard Sherman gets called a thug for being emotional about the most important play of his life... Of course Richard Sherman and Cam Newton both have long time girlfriends/wives and children with only them and have never been in legal trouble.. But the same media that loves to blame bad models in athletics won't praise these guys as excellent role models...
such a great post
One thing that I really like about this thread is how; in other settings (youtube, facebook, x-forum, in person) normally these things are said about Lebron and they pretty much go un-checked. It's great to see all of the points that have been brought up to defend Lebron; mostly his character and achievements. As for the debate on whether or not he should have improved his free throws, footwork, jumper, post up game, left hand etc, more by now; that's still up in the air. But, to simply say he hasn't improved or won more championships because of his ego, character, not practicing hard enough, etc; I think those have been shot down fairly well.
There's an ongoing character/achievement assassination of Lebron, that seemed to begin with him leaving Cleveland. I hope people who shoot down his character/achievements so easily, without a strong argument, realize at some point that they've just been sucked into this campaign or that they need to address some deeply rooted racism that they never knew they had.
And I can't say it enough.. I've witnessed this same exact thing with Serena Williams and it drives me up the wall. It's just much more obvious in the case of Serena. Apparently, that "one moment" where she freaked out on the line judge calling her for a foot fault during a serve, was "the moment". That allowed everyone who wanted to hate her, to openly voice their disgust for her, every time she takes the court. To diminish her accomplishments, every chance they get. To openly voice their frustration that a black female tennis player is dominating in a mostly "white" sport.
Serena would fall under the category of "disobedient". She's vocal, aggressive, powerful, confident, and she's been destroying her opponents for a very long time - even while spending much of her energy in off-the-court endeavors such as fashion etc. If you ever wanted to see people lash out at "the disobedient black", look no further. It's disgraceful.
As you can see I get heated on this topic. Just witnessing it in person, in so many different settings, stays with you.
Finally, just look at what Raptor said in reaction to Draymond's kick.. That's a great example of some of the stuff we're talking about here.. obviously more blatant. If he wasn't as blatant with his remarks, he could have easily disguised it using other excuses/attacks for years to come, ie much more subtle, all over one action which I perceive to be the trigger that allowed him to just let loose his hate. In this day&age, you can't convince me that calling a black person an ape/monkey in an attack, doesn't have deeply rooted hate based on race.
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Really good points. You probably have an interesting perspective being a white person in that people probably let their guard down and say these racist things a little quicker... I'm so racially ambiguous that I try to hide in the shadows but I think people are a little more guarded and careful to not reveal themselves to me quite as fast.. In fact I don't have many white friends that are into sports but it's the one I do have who tells me the racist things people tell him about athletes that have really shocked me the most...
It's great that it gets you heated, it should! Speaking of Raptors hate filled posts - it's perspectives like this that are so dangerous because they lead to a racism and hate that the person feels is justified. I really hate to talk about my personal life but I find it unavoidable to give LBJ credit for one of the things I respect so much without admitting to my own personal failings...
What's so ironic is that while Lebron is hated for not being obedient (although they use the euphemism that he is not humble or too egotistical) while he is actually fiercely loyal. His loyalty is on display in so many ways - to his family, to his city (returning to Cleveland after being blasted by the owner), to his friends (hiring them rather than some established agents), and most importantly in my opinion to his woman. I think a lot of us have grown up with the support of a loyal girl that is down to ride just like he has... But most of us don't still have her... While my level of athletic/academic/professional success is obvious far less than Lebron and I still went from very little to a lot more in my life and I have to confess that track meets at UNLV, pool parties in Vegas full of previously untouchables (tall light-skinned women really), and the temptation to get the rewards that one feels he deserves was stronger than my ability to be loyal to my ride or die... I can contrast myself with Lebron, who despite levels of temptation far greater than what I couldn't handle is still loyal to his middle school girlfriend and put a ring on her finger. I can honestly say that while his basketball game is amazing that this is an aspect where I look up to him like as a man - it's taken me a lot longer than him but at my current age (same as him) I can see the value in living life loyal to those who were loyal to you rather than like you for what you did...
This experience is why I don't judge Dwight Howard for coming into the league as this Christian role model and having a bunch of kids out of wedlock with a bunch of women. It is not easy. I get it. And it's really unfair to judge someone for giving in to a level of temptation that you haven't experienced. It's why I have no patience for Raptor when he talks about how unfair it is that he doesn't have a girlfriend because "if he did he would be so loyal and perfect unlike all these other assholes who take it for granted". It's like Chris Rock said about 90 year old Strom Thurmond during Clinton's sex scandal in the 1990's - "it's real easy to judge Bill Clinton when your 90 years old and nobody is begging to give you a blowjob".
That said while I don't feel right judging athletes for their indiscretions - I do 100% feel that we should praise and elevate those who don't. It makes me really mad that a media who claims to take things like rape culture seriously and care about athletes who are role models never bring this up... It's like you only can get scorn for messing up. It kills me that Kobe got a pass for raping someone*** and that some of the targets who get labeled thugs or put down because of trivial things like dancing or emotion or self-determination and free agency (eg Cam Newton, Richard Sherman, LBJ). I think we are going to see this more and more because what the media really doesn't like is disobedience and intelligence in combination. Some athletes are disobedient because they don't care about the status quo so they push back against it (eg Randy Moss, Allen Iverson, Ron Artest) - these athletes are hated by the media and the general (ie white) population because of their disobedience but invariably these guys give the media non-racist justification for criticism by getting in fights or having gun charges or something else of the sort... However, I think these guys still get less scorn than athletes who are both intelligent and disobedient and REALLY scare the defenders of the status quo. This is where Serena is totally an example and this is where societies racism becomes so clear as they invent ridiculous reasons to hate them. In Serena's case I have heard that she is hated because she doesn't practice hard enough and spends too much time on fashion? She only wins like 3 out of 4 grand slams a year in her 30's and you are mad because you think she isn't working on her game enough?? Clearly whatever she is doing is working.
Glad to see you exposing this, one of the most frustrating barriers still in sports.
***I know Kobe didn't get charged with rape. I realize that. But he admitted to rape which in today's narrative of "yes means yes" (which I agree with) should have resulted a bit more scorn... His apology was basically "I realize you feel like I raped you and I didn't get consent but I didn't realize I was raping you so sorry". I don't want to get into a debate about rape because I feel like there are "lesser" and "greater" levels of the crime of rape (eg locking someone in a dungeon for a year and raping them is definately a lot worse than what Kobe did) but by the current definition that is being taught and should be taught on college campuses Kobes apology was an admission of rape. I'm ok with him not being punished further, I'm not vindictive and I believe in second chances and don't really believe in prison in general... The only punishment he should continue to endure is the media never forgetting that in the debate between who is better between him and LBJ that he is way way way behind Lebron is as far as which is a more positive role model outside the game... LBJ is also the better basketball players, but that's neither here nor there for this debate...